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Decline of Civilization

 A few weeks ago, I watched with sadness as the governor of Massachusetts, along with other men and women, celebrated with cheers and applause a new law signed into existence. This law permits abortions up until the day of the baby’s birth. The previous state law allowed abortions for up to 24 weeks, but many wanted more freedom to end the life of their child.  Interestingly, the doublespeak bill is titled, “Prioritizing Patient Access to Care Act.”  No mention of the unborn baby’s care.

I understand that late-term abortions are rare, but in the earlier days of abortion, we were told they would all be rare, legal and safe.  I suggest that because there have been 63 million abortions in the United States in the last 53 years – they have not been rare.

Thirty years ago, a single daughter of our friends became pregnant. She gave birth to a baby boy diagnosed with hydranencephaly – the brain had started to form but then stopped.  He had only a brain stem surrounded by fluid.  The family loved that little boy until he died 12 days after he was born.  The family trusted their baby with the Lord’s timing.

Today, if that baby was diagnosed in utero, doctors would typically recommend abortion.  Why not allow the baby to be born and allow the family to grieve and say “good-bye” and love that little boy for 12 days?

I remember reading an article ten years after the Supreme Court declared that all women were now endowed with the right to terminate their pregnancies. Way back in 1984 Francis Schaeffer stated that abortion is a Slippery Slope in the dignity of mankind because when babies in utero are no longer valuable, the elderly will also be seen as an unnecessary burden to bear.  At the time I didn’t understand what a Slippery Slope would entail.

That Slippery Slope was actually endorsed over one hundred years ago by the founder of Planned Parenthood – Margaret Sanger.  Here are two of her most infamous quotes:

“These two words (birth control) sum up our whole philosophy. It means the release and cultivation of the better elements in our society and the gradual suppression, elimination and eventual extinction of the defective stocks – those human weeds which threaten the blooming of the finest flowers of American Civilization.” (1923)

~and~

“We don’t want word to get out that we want to exterminate the entire Negro population.” (1939)

Today, physician-assisted suicide is increasingly promoted as an option for terminally ill patients – for those who are aging, or simply emotionally distressed. It has been legal in The Netherlands since 2002 and is presented as a practical option.

Are abortion and euthanasia becoming ways for us to escape pain, weakness and inconvenience?  Are we looking for an easier life so as not to be confronted with our own lack of power?  Or are we afraid of facing hard things and desperately trying to take control over our lives and others’ by inserting ourselves into God’s place?

Today, many people are making the choice of death for the people they choose.  Yes, some terminally ill people have chosen this option for themselves.  But have we considered the fact that someday a certain people-group near me might decide whether I live or die because of my beliefs, heritage or age?

 We all remember what Hitler and his followers did during WWII – they ranked human groups into a hierarchy, declaring that the Germans and other Nordic peoples were the superior master race.  Anyone outside this group were deemed subhuman – specifically the Jews, gypsies, political dissidents and others -so they needed to be exterminated, and they successfully killed almost 6 million.

In the 1990s, the Hutus in Rwanda systematically dehumanized fellow Rwandans from the Tutsi ethnic group, calling them “no better than cockroaches,” and slaughtered nearly one million Tutsis over four years.

We make a grave mistake when we ourselves live as if we are “God” and decide which humans live and which humans die.  Whenever we keep God out of the equation of life and put ourselves in His place, we redefine who is valuable and who is not.  We become the judge who makes the decision of who will be allowed to live or die.  Today it may be just the unborn, elderly and the terminally ill, tomorrow someone may decide you or me to be no better than a cockroach and we will need to be exterminated… 

The God of the Bible created humans in His image and in the book of Genesis we were given the command to be fruitful and fill the earth. He crowned humans with glory so we can imitate Him in creating and tending and loving the world around us.  But it’s not only the Bible which tell us we are valuable, even our Declaration of Independence states:

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights …Life, Liberty and the pursuit of happiness”. 

When people disregard our Creator God and deny He exists, they essentially become their own god. And when human beings put themselves in the place of God, the weak and the handicapped will bear the brunt of those decisions about who has the right to breathe air on this planet and who does not.   

“To have a right to do a thing is not at all the same as to be right in doing it.”

G.K. Chesterton

Artemis II: A Journey Through Space and Faith

I have watched with fascination the journey of Artemis II as it traveled 694,000 miles in 10 days.  From its take-off on April 1 to splashdown April 10, I have been in awe about how mere man has invented a vehicle able to travel so many miles at such a high speed and yet able to slow from an incoming speed of 24,000 mph to only 20 mph at splashdown.  And all this with keeping four human beings safe for 10 days in the relatively tiny capsule.

But what amazes me even more are the pictures that were taken as the crew was traveling around the moon itself.  The “earthrise” picture is stunning especially as contrasted with the surface of the moon.  The moon looks like a desolate pocked rock with no life because of the extreme temperatures which vary between +260 and -280 degrees, depending on which part of the sun it is facing.  In contrast, the little blue dot we call earth is gorgeous as it rises above the rim of the moon. 

Victor Glover, one of the astronauts, said that from a distance the earth looks like an oasis in the middle of vast nothingness.  Indeed it is – there is no other planet viable for humans except our dear Planet Earth.

In our solar system we have eight planets orbiting around the sun, but Earth is the only one inhabitable by humans – or anything living at all.  Mercury, the closest to the sun, is a bit too warm at 800 degrees.  Venus is even hotter, plus its atmosphere is pure poison.  Mars isn’t hot but is cold and dry with dust storms covering the entire planet. Ice is found on Mars, but there is no liquid water to drink.  Both Jupiter and Saturn are made up of hydrogen and helium gases so it’s tough to walk around or breathe.   Uranus is a beautiful blue color but is full of methane gas.  Neptune is 30 times farther from the sun than Earth, making it extremely cold with winds reaching up to 1,500 miles per hour.

Earth uniquely has the correct temperature, soil, air and water conditions for life.  This is often called The Goldilocks Zone – not too hot, not too cold, but just right.  Of course we know why Earth is the perfect place for humans, animals and plants to live.  Page one of the Bible tells us that God spoke our world into being and said, “It is good.”

I marvel at our universe, our home here on Planet Earth, and our amazing God who created it all.  But I’m not the first one to be in awe.  Whoever wrote Psalm 33 thought the same:

“The heavens were made by the word of the LORD,

And all the stars, by the breath of His mouth…

Let the whole earth fear the LORD;

Let all the inhabitants of the world stand in awe of Him.

For He spoke, and it came into being;

He commanded, and it came into existence…

The Lord looks down from heaven; He observes everyone.

He gazes on all the inhabitants of the earth

From His dwelling place.

He forms the hearts of them all; He considers all their works…

But look, the Lord keeps His eye on those who fear Him –

Those who depend on His faithful love…

For our hearts rejoice in Him

Because we trust in His Holy name.

May your faithful love rest on us, LORD, for we put our hope in you.”

Psalm 33:6-22

The same God who spoke the world into existence, designing the galaxies by His wisdom is so far above my ability to comprehend.  He is transcendent and unfathomable.

And yet He is near, He formed my heart and yours; and more than anything He would love for us to love Him. As Victor Glover, the first black man in space, said “God told us to love Him with all that we are and love our neighbors as ourselves.”  What a profound statement to make as he is in the process of orbiting the moon.  Yet, that’s what we were created for, to praise and love our Creator as well as those He has generously given us.

Love doesn’t change, neither does God – whether we are orbiting the moon or living here on earth.  He’ll love you to the moon and back.

God Box

Do you know that on average you make 35,000 choices every day?  I had no idea, but that’s what the research says.  You can choose to get out of bed in the morning, choose to smile, choose to be kind to your husband and choose to say “thank you” to the people around you. 

You can also choose to worry – about what your friend thinks of you, worry about wearing the right clothes, about what your children are doing…  the possibilities are endless.

Every day we are faced with two basic choices. 

We have a choice to worry about tomorrow

– or –

 we can choose to trust God and cast those worries on Jesus.

Craig Groeschel recently wrote a book Winning the War in Your Mind, teaching about those very things.  One specific example he gives is an incredibly easy and tangible way to be thinking about what you are thinking.  Craig suggests making a God Box.  It can be a shoebox, an Amazon box, or any other little box you may have lying around.  On the outside of the box write the word God.  Any time you have a runaway thought, a worry or a temptation, write it down on a piece of paper and throw it in the God Box.

You might write something like:

I’m afraid there won’t be enough money to cover the bills

I’m worried about my 17 year-old

What if our business fails?

I’m afraid of what may happen to my children when I am not around

I’m worried about my health, what if I never get better?

Will there be enough food for all?

Will my friend ever forgive me?

When you write each of these worries on a piece of paper and put it in the God Box, you could say:

God, I know you’re bigger than all these problems and I will trust you with them.  I can do nothing to fix anything, and so I give them all to you.  I don’t want to expend my mental real estate focusing on all these issues I cannot change, so I give them to you.

Once you pray and give it to God, go on with your life.

But if you decide you want to worry about something you’ve already put in the God box, open it up take out that slip of paper and say to God,

I don’t trust you any more with this item so I’m going to worry some more about it.

You may think that sounds like a rude thing to say to God, but in effect that’s what we’re saying when we fill our mind with worry.  The apostle Peter tells us to cast all our cares upon God for He cares for you.  Our thoughts seek to betray us, and doubts pop into our mind, but we have a choice whether we will worry about stuff, or live a life of trust and dependence on God. 

Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we will receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:16

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